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Realization Inhibits Disease Sakinah Family

Already a sunnatullah in life, everything contains both positive and negative elements. In building the family sakinah also a factor that supports there is a constraint factor. Factors that an obstacle or a disease that inhibits the growth of sakinah in the family is,

1. Erroneous or false belief, for example, believe the power of shamans, magic and the like. Guidance shamans and the like not only make a living is not rational, but also can be misleading in a fatal disaster.

2. Foods that do not halalan thayyiba. According to the traditions of the Prophet, a piece of meat in the human body that comes from forbidden foods, tend to encourage the unlawful act, too (qith `at al Lahmi min al haram ila ahaqqu the nar). Convey the same food, as well as houses, cars, clothes and others.

3. Luxury. According to the Qur'an, the destruction of a nation begins with the trend of luxury, mutrafin (Q/17: 16), the opposite of simplicity will be the citadel of truth. Families who have the luxury lifestyle easy to fall into the greed and behaviors manyimpang the end destroy the beauty of family life.

4. Association is not maintained kesopanannya (to bring in WIL and PIL). Therefore, husband or wife should avoid being alone with a non Muhrim, because although at first it does not intend anything or even well-intentioned, but the psychological atmosphere alone will be able to lead to infidelity.

5. Stupidity. Ignorance is the character of mathematical, logical and there is also a social stupidity. Consideration of life is not forever mathematical and logical, but there is also a consideration of social logic and social mathematics. As a result of social ignorance and social mathematically the frequent quarrels in the family.

6. Low morals. Morals is a state of mind that becomes the driving behavior. Inner qualities of people who easily fall into this low-low behavior extremely detrimental.

7. Far from being religious. Religious life dalah guidance. People who adhere to religion, though not clever, his life journey is guaranteed not to deviate too far from the tracks the truth. People who are far from religion easily fooled by something that seemed promising but false.


M. Agus S

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Abdul Qadir GO LOOK FOR SCIENCE

Day by day week month change weeks turned into months the years went by Abdul Qadir grow in age approached baligh he went to study and serve the scholars that a high degree to the high-ulamaannya and science. Abdul Qadir was the son of students (pupils) are very intelligent and agile, he's mastered within a short time and understand that given by his teachers.
TEACHERS IN SCIENCE Sheikh Abdul Qadir FIGH
 Sheikh Abil Wafa 'ALI BIN' Aqil
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 Sheikh Abil KHUTTOBIL KALWADZANNI Mahfud BIN AHMADAL Jalil
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 Sheikh Abil Husain MOHAMMED BIN ABI ALQODI YA'LA
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TEACHERS IN SCIENCE ADAM
 Sheikh Yahya Zakaria ABI BIN 'ALI ATTIBRIZI
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SCIENCE TEACHERS AL THORIQOT to 'ARIF BILLAH
 Hammad Sheikh Abil Khoir ADDABBAS MUSLIM BIN
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Then he was happy to go into science Thoriqot thus allowed to become a shaikh (mentors) and given clothes "KHIRQOH Sufiah" greatness of the Sufi kind of clothes at the time.

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Being a creative parent to his children

Being a parent today requires a willingness and ketarampilan are not 'normal'. Have you ever heard the anecdote about, of all types of schools that exist in this world, schools are not available is the school to become parents. Being a parent in the internet era is not only busy child wishes to purchase the latest mobile phone or computer art. TAPPI also ensure that our children can maximize the functionality of the Internet.
 
It is true that both the tool can make children become more intelligent and up to date in using technology and (perhaps) could help her duties at school. But more important is not the mastery of technology but of manners or ordinances when our children use technology, it is more important.
 
Due to be of no use if a sophisticated computer used only by children and our students to games or chat. There is no point also if a sophisticated computer or even mobile phones which then can be a source of disaster for our children later on in the future.
 
Some important things to note include
 
1. Do not always connect the computer to learn, if our children are in front of the computer, not always he was learning.
2. Supervise your child's bedtime, the biggest problem in the use of technology in addition to the problem of pornography is a reduction in sleep time our children. Because if it is in front of computer time to pass so quickly.
3. Many parents who have an open mind that learning is not just from books, or computers can help children in learning, used by children. Used in the sense of children busy at the computer with the reason he learns.
4. As parents continue to hone your skills on the internet. No need to go play games, or become an expert internet. The ability of the minimum you should have as a parent is able to send emails and search for information on google. This is especially useful if your child is busy talking about the games or the latest applications on the internet, you can do is type the word in google then you will get all the information needed for consideration as a parent.
5. Give good Web sites for children's learning. With you give a good site to be proof that you are also someone who is always learning.
6. If you are a parent who has a facebook, do not ever write status of origin on your facebook page. If you do want to confide in another way. Any write on facebook status will only make your child think can spit in our personal problems on the internet.
7. Embed this on our children that everything written or posted on the internet will be on the internet forever. Everything that exists on the internet like a tattoo on our bodies, can be lost but still spotting.
8. If you have a junior high or high school age kids, they loved to chat using the technology. This even has become their lifestyle. Strive for them to do this safely, the way is not too much trust in new people.
9. Teach children to always ask herself, if a parent or close family read their status, or see the photos they put on their blog or facebook page about how perasaaannya? Thus making them always to be careful.
 
Finally, efforts are important and biggest was how to be parents willing to open themselves to learning again, and sat together with the child in order to maintain and protect them in cyberspace and in the real world.
 
Let us look for new ways as a parent who is more creative than just a ban-ban child or just let the child in the world of internet and technology just because it thinks that the world of the Internet is the world our children and not the adult world.
 
Imagine if ten or twenty years later if there are people who type the name of our children in google it comes out is all that's fine from our children, such as images when they join an activity or good writing about our kids made by kids us in the past.