Already a sunnatullah in life, everything contains both positive and negative elements. In building the family sakinah also a factor that supports there is a constraint factor. Factors that an obstacle or a disease that inhibits the growth of sakinah in the family is,
1. Erroneous or false belief, for example, believe the power of shamans, magic and the like. Guidance shamans and the like not only make a living is not rational, but also can be misleading in a fatal disaster.
2. Foods that do not halalan thayyiba. According to the traditions of the Prophet, a piece of meat in the human body that comes from forbidden foods, tend to encourage the unlawful act, too (qith `at al Lahmi min al haram ila ahaqqu the nar). Convey the same food, as well as houses, cars, clothes and others.
3. Luxury. According to the Qur'an, the destruction of a nation begins with the trend of luxury, mutrafin (Q/17: 16), the opposite of simplicity will be the citadel of truth. Families who have the luxury lifestyle easy to fall into the greed and behaviors manyimpang the end destroy the beauty of family life.
4. Association is not maintained kesopanannya (to bring in WIL and PIL). Therefore, husband or wife should avoid being alone with a non Muhrim, because although at first it does not intend anything or even well-intentioned, but the psychological atmosphere alone will be able to lead to infidelity.
5. Stupidity. Ignorance is the character of mathematical, logical and there is also a social stupidity. Consideration of life is not forever mathematical and logical, but there is also a consideration of social logic and social mathematics. As a result of social ignorance and social mathematically the frequent quarrels in the family.
6. Low morals. Morals is a state of mind that becomes the driving behavior. Inner qualities of people who easily fall into this low-low behavior extremely detrimental.
7. Far from being religious. Religious life dalah guidance. People who adhere to religion, though not clever, his life journey is guaranteed not to deviate too far from the tracks the truth. People who are far from religion easily fooled by something that seemed promising but false.
M. Agus S
1. Erroneous or false belief, for example, believe the power of shamans, magic and the like. Guidance shamans and the like not only make a living is not rational, but also can be misleading in a fatal disaster.
2. Foods that do not halalan thayyiba. According to the traditions of the Prophet, a piece of meat in the human body that comes from forbidden foods, tend to encourage the unlawful act, too (qith `at al Lahmi min al haram ila ahaqqu the nar). Convey the same food, as well as houses, cars, clothes and others.
3. Luxury. According to the Qur'an, the destruction of a nation begins with the trend of luxury, mutrafin (Q/17: 16), the opposite of simplicity will be the citadel of truth. Families who have the luxury lifestyle easy to fall into the greed and behaviors manyimpang the end destroy the beauty of family life.
4. Association is not maintained kesopanannya (to bring in WIL and PIL). Therefore, husband or wife should avoid being alone with a non Muhrim, because although at first it does not intend anything or even well-intentioned, but the psychological atmosphere alone will be able to lead to infidelity.
5. Stupidity. Ignorance is the character of mathematical, logical and there is also a social stupidity. Consideration of life is not forever mathematical and logical, but there is also a consideration of social logic and social mathematics. As a result of social ignorance and social mathematically the frequent quarrels in the family.
6. Low morals. Morals is a state of mind that becomes the driving behavior. Inner qualities of people who easily fall into this low-low behavior extremely detrimental.
7. Far from being religious. Religious life dalah guidance. People who adhere to religion, though not clever, his life journey is guaranteed not to deviate too far from the tracks the truth. People who are far from religion easily fooled by something that seemed promising but false.
M. Agus S
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